Life will always have ups and downs, but what can you do when the negatives seem to have outweighed the positives? Improving your quality of life may seem like a huge task, but don’t worry – turning things around can be easier than you expect.
We have the key tips, tricks and research on how to be happy in life:
1) Treat Happiness as a Goal
Happiness naturally comes and goes, but a happy lifestyle is an achievable goal.
As with any goal, you first need to identify exactly what you are trying to achieve. Easier said than done – for some, happiness may have been out of the picture for so long that it feels like a stranger. Spend some time getting reacquainted. What is happiness? What does a happy lifestyle look like to you? Picture yourself as a happy person — what do you wear, how do you speak, what hobbies do you have? This looks and feels different to everyone. Determine what happiness is to you, what’s getting in your way of having a happy lifestyle, and get creative — draw happiness, write a story about being happy, or talk to a friend about how you might choose to be happy.
Once you know where you want to end up, you can plan how to get there (don’t worry – we have more tips coming!). Most importantly, keep an eye on your progress:
Track Your Happiness
Tracking your mood can give you a realistic view of the natural flow of your emotions and insight into what situations may trigger a sad mood or feelings of frustration, and what aspects of your life bring you happiness (there may be more than you expect). Journalling is a thorough way to track mood, can provide a place for reflection on how to be happy, and help you to see the importance of your life’s journey. It may also have added benefits — a 2013 study showed that daily expressive writing significantly improved the mood of participants . If longhand narrative isn’t your style, smartphone apps are an easy way to log your mood and reflect on monthly summary charts.
Once you have a clear idea of where you’re starting and what you want, begin working towards a happy lifestyle with these tips:
2) Support the Mind-Body Connection
Happiness really does come from within. The brain, glands, and the nervous system require support to create chemicals that trigger feelings of happiness, satisfaction, elation, relaxation, and joy. These physiological processes can be helped or hindered by what you eat, how you move, how you sleep and what you think about. Focus on the following four items first:
The data is clear – physical activity is a fast-track to being happy. Most of us have heard that aerobic and weight training exercises release endorphins, but what does that really mean?
The brain registers exercise as a type of stress — pressure on joints, muscle contractions and stretching, and an increased heart rate signal that there is physical stress occurring in the body. The brain releases endorphins to block any pain and distress signals, and to replace them with feelings of euphoria. A short workout each day is enough to maintain a good mood – these feel-good neurotransmitters peak after 20 minutes of exercise and can remain active in the body for up to 24 hours! 
Eat Healthy Foods for Happiness
Food provides the building blocks for a healthy and happy lifestyle. The happiest minds have an abundance of nutrients available to build feel-good chemicals like serotonin, dopamine and GABA. Studies show that eating an anti-inflammatory diet rich in fresh fruits, vegetables, proteins, and healthy fats can help to improve mood within 2 weeks . Remember the happiness proteins we mentioned earlier? Eating a diet rich in omega-3 fatty acids and fresh produce may boost BDNF and endorphins .
Speaking to a nutritionist for personalized advice can help you find the optimal diet for your specific needs.
Sleep is essential to recover from physical and emotional stress, but did you know that good quality sleep can encourage your brain to remember positive events rather than negative ones? Because sleep deprivation affects the hippocampus, it can suppress the mind’s perception of good things when they happen . For optimal happiness, try to get at least 8 hours of uninterrupted sleep each night. If that sounds like a dream, grab an afternoon nap or meditate regularly to “reset” your mood .
Even the happiest minds know that there are more opportunities for happiness on the horizon. Do whatever it takes to remain optimistic, choose to be happy, and don’t get stuck in complacency. Listen to upbeat music, read self-help books, and talk to yourself (and others) with affirming words – things are going to get better, they always do!
Speak to a medical professional, such as a psychologist, if you suffer from a serious mental health condition or have trouble breaking negative thought patterns.
3) Support Your Social Happiness
A good mood is contagious and surrounding yourself with happy friends and family is a great way to keep a smile on your face. They may also have some good advice for you – the happiest minds want to share their knowledge on how to be happy. But don’t ditch your sad friends in favor of a cheerier crew. Studies suggest that the quantity rather than the quality of social interaction is what matters most. Plus, helping a struggling friend, family member, or even a stranger can give you a feeling of satisfaction and highlight your strengths – volunteers are among the happiest people! 
Don’t be afraid to ask these same friends and family for help when you need to know how to get out of a bad mood. Most people are happy to help.
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